MANIFEST For a Good Cause!!! đ
Mar. 16th, 2025 08:08 amSo, I decided to be a Real Human Girl & spread the word among my various local social networks: I am looking for a new place to live; if you hear of anything...
(This is harder than you may think since I feel intense shame that, at my advanced age, I am still experiencing housing insecurity.)
One of the people I told was Adrienne when I was over at her house Friday going over some stuff for the political website I'm designing for her. Adrienne is what Malcolm Gladwell would call a connector.
I didn't think anything would come of it, but you knowâya gotta shake the trees.
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Then yesterday, I got a text: This is BlaBla's good friend Sue. She mentioned you are looking for a place to live?
The Adrienne connection! Thank you, Shawangunk Dems!
Sue & I texted for an hour and a half. She has found an amazing house in New Paltz! (She texted me the Zillow listing.) She loves cats! The landlord allows cats!
What can you tell from texts? Well, you can tell if you have sympatico conversational styles, if the same things make you laugh.
We have sympatico conversational styles. The same things make us laugh.
We will be meeting up in person tomorrow after I TaxBwana.
Several potential thorns in the roseâbeyond the obvious, which is we could meet each other & just go, Ick:
First thorn: She wants to move by April. I told her regretfully that the earliest I could possibly move is May; she thought maybe she could negotiate with the landlord for a rent reduction for April & carry the rest of the rent herself for that month.
OmiGAWD. Somebody who's not too cowed to negotiate!
Second thorn: I cannot possibly afford the house if the rent is split two ways. I can afford it if the rent is split three ways, and it would be fabulous if the rent could be split four ways. (The house has four bedrooms.)
So, if we like each other in person & think we could be compatible housemates, we will have to scramble for other compatible housematesâby the 1st of May.
I suspect that is eminently doable. But, of course, there is a risk factor.
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I am afraid to hope. I am utterly convinced that anything I let myself want, I will not get.
So, I need my peeps to help manifest this for me. (
lifeinroseland, I am looking at you!)
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In other news, I did a bunch of tax returns yesterday. I have around 15 friends & family members for whom I do tax returns every year. I will finish everyone's tax returns up today.
I didn't leave the house. It was cold & miserable out. Foreboding. And I'm trying to adhere to an every-other-day exercise schedule because aging body, refrain from the over-do! blah-blah-blah. So no gym.
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The political news is making me absolutely sick to my stomach.
Thirty Democrats voted to end cloture! And ten voted in favor of Trump's awful budget bill.
Democrats are only slightly less smelly pieces of shit than Republicans.
Somehow, we've got to figure out a way to get through this.
(This is harder than you may think since I feel intense shame that, at my advanced age, I am still experiencing housing insecurity.)
One of the people I told was Adrienne when I was over at her house Friday going over some stuff for the political website I'm designing for her. Adrienne is what Malcolm Gladwell would call a connector.
I didn't think anything would come of it, but you knowâya gotta shake the trees.
###
Then yesterday, I got a text: This is BlaBla's good friend Sue. She mentioned you are looking for a place to live?
The Adrienne connection! Thank you, Shawangunk Dems!
Sue & I texted for an hour and a half. She has found an amazing house in New Paltz! (She texted me the Zillow listing.) She loves cats! The landlord allows cats!
What can you tell from texts? Well, you can tell if you have sympatico conversational styles, if the same things make you laugh.
We have sympatico conversational styles. The same things make us laugh.
We will be meeting up in person tomorrow after I TaxBwana.
Several potential thorns in the roseâbeyond the obvious, which is we could meet each other & just go, Ick:
First thorn: She wants to move by April. I told her regretfully that the earliest I could possibly move is May; she thought maybe she could negotiate with the landlord for a rent reduction for April & carry the rest of the rent herself for that month.
OmiGAWD. Somebody who's not too cowed to negotiate!
Second thorn: I cannot possibly afford the house if the rent is split two ways. I can afford it if the rent is split three ways, and it would be fabulous if the rent could be split four ways. (The house has four bedrooms.)
So, if we like each other in person & think we could be compatible housemates, we will have to scramble for other compatible housematesâby the 1st of May.
I suspect that is eminently doable. But, of course, there is a risk factor.
###
I am afraid to hope. I am utterly convinced that anything I let myself want, I will not get.
So, I need my peeps to help manifest this for me. (
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In other news, I did a bunch of tax returns yesterday. I have around 15 friends & family members for whom I do tax returns every year. I will finish everyone's tax returns up today.
I didn't leave the house. It was cold & miserable out. Foreboding. And I'm trying to adhere to an every-other-day exercise schedule because aging body, refrain from the over-do! blah-blah-blah. So no gym.
###
The political news is making me absolutely sick to my stomach.
Thirty Democrats voted to end cloture! And ten voted in favor of Trump's awful budget bill.
Democrats are only slightly less smelly pieces of shit than Republicans.
Somehow, we've got to figure out a way to get through this.